The 42 Best Vibrators for All Kinds of Stimulation, According to Sex Experts
VIBRATORS ARE a gift to women and vagina-owning people everywhere. They take the already titillating act of sex and turn it into an orgasmic overload of pleasure. If you’re searching for the best vibrator, you don’t have to look very far. There are so many options available for every body type and preference.
Like other sex toys, vibrators enhance sex by stimulating the vulva and vagina in ways the human body simply can’t. Using your hands can be fun, but it frankly doesn’t compare to the power of a vibrator. Plus, you can get sore pretty fast.
While some guys feel intimidated bringing a vibrator into the bedroom, true pros know that vibrators elevate the entire sexual experience. The best vibrators for women focus on her pleasure, which, in return, also pleases her partner to know that she’s enjoying herself.
But which vibrators are the best? There are tons of options out there, from the trusty ol’ Magic Wand that’s been helping people cum since the ’60s to cutting-edge products that heat up, pulse to the beat of music, and thrust on their own. There are vibrators that stimulate the clitoris, vibrators that hit the G-spot, and vibrators that do both—even both at once. All of which is to say, if you’ve never bought a vibrator before, or even if you’re looking for a new vibe to add to your collection, the volume of choices can be a bit mind-boggling.
Not sure what kind of vibrator is best for you? The person who’s going to be using the toy should consider what feels good for them and go from there, says sex and relationship therapist Rachel Wright, LMFT.
“Think about what body parts you want to stimulate, where you like to be touched, and what types of sensations you like,” she says. “For example, if you know that you like to have your clitoris stimulated, this is a great opportunity to get a toy or pleasure aid that can stimulate your clitoris in a way that the human body just can’t.” (FYI, an oft-cited survey of 1,055 cisgender women published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that 37% of cis women need clit stimulation to have an orgasm, and a further 36% said they didn’t need it, but it made their orgasms better—just another reason to have a vibrator in the bedroom!)
If you’re curious about a particular vibrator, read the product description and look at photos to learn more about what it’s best used for. Some are designed to stimulate the clitoris during penetrative sex, some are best for other kinds of partner play, and some are ideal for masturbation, Wright says. Plus, some partnered toys are geared toward penetrative sex involving a penis and a vagina, which isn’t how all couples get down.
Since everyone’s looking for different kinds of pleasure, we listed our editors’ and experts’ favorite vibrators in nine categories listed below. Whatever you end up playing with, don’t forget the water-based lube!
These vibrators get their name because they’re shaped kinda like bullets. They’re designed for external stimulation: primarily of the clitoris, but hey, try them on the nipples while you’re at it. The small size makes them approachable for beginners, not to mention ideal for travel.
Pros
- Quiet, discreet motor
- “Rumbly” motor provides unique internal pleasure
Bullet vibes aren’t just for solo play. This classic bullet vibrator from Je Joue comes with fingersleeve to turn you or your partner’s hand into a vibrator while maintaining the intimacy of skin-to-skin contact. Take it in the shower for some steamy fun.
Lovehoney Thrill
Or, try a bullet with a rounded tip for more diffused stimulation.
Dame Products Zee
This cute little vibrator is rechargeable, so unlike with most bullet vibes, you won’t need to scramble in search of batteries.
We-Vibe Tango X
It may be on the pricier end of the bullet vibrator market, but if you’re looking for maximum power in a tiny package, the Tango X is your friend.
These vibrators are designed for external clitoral stimulation. They’re great for masturbation, and depending on the position you’re in, you might be able to work them into partnered play, too. Venus butterfly position, anyone?
Le Wand Double Vibrator
Some vulva-owners prefer stimulating their external clitoris from the sides, which makes this two-pronged vibrator…pure heaven.
Cal Exotics Red Hot Spark Clitoral Vibe
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You can lay this vibrator flat across the external clitoris for maximum coverage area and to stimulate all the way around the edges of the clitoris. Yes, please.
Massage wands tend to be bigger vibrators that deliver serious power. They “have a strong, often rumbly, vibration,” Wright says. Given how intense they are, wands are great for solo play. If you are using one with a partner, you’re better off focusing on the toy than trying to squeeze it into another form of sex, she adds. Most of the time, “it’s the wand show.”
Pros
- Plug in design offers maximum power
- Can be used with different attachments for varied pleasure (sold separately)
The Magic Wand has been one of the world’s most popular vibrators since it launched in 1968, and for good reason. If you want to set the Guinness World Record for most orgasms in one sex session…here’s your best bet. Trust us: even the “low” setting packs a shocking amount of power. And you can rotate between using the flat top of the head and the rounded edge for diffused and targeted stimulation.
Le Wand Petite Massage Wand
Massage wands tend to be on the larger side, which is great from a power standpoint. But if you’re looking for something smaller that’s easier to travel with (or just easier on the wrist), try this 10-inch-long “petite” alternative. (Le Wand’s original massage wand is 13.4 inches long.)
Evolved Novelties Wanderlust Massage Wand
This massager is well built and built to last. It has a broad surface area, which makes it easy to navigate, and provides consistent stimulation that will reliably lead to orgasm.
Zalo Kyro Wand Massager
This wand vibrator is great on its own, but if you want variety, it also comes with two attachments: one for G-spot stimulation, and another with rabbit-esque ears for hitting the sides of the external clitoris—or even a little nipple play.
These vibrators are curved to hit the G-spot, an erogenous zone on the inside of the vagina that’s linked to the clitoris.
Pros
- Customizable shape and size
- Can be used with multiple dildo heads to swap during play (sold separately)
As the name implies, this advanced toy actually thrusts into you, simulating the act of repeated penetration. It isn’t cheap, but it’s life-changing.
Pros
- G-spot seeking head
- Easy-to-operate twist base for complete control
This popular and highly-rated toy on Lovehoney has a bulbous head that gets right down to business. “The curved end makes me orgasm so quickly,” one reviewer says. “The vibes are strong and the angle means you can reach the perfect spot,” another wrote.
lelo GIGI
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This vibrator has a flattened tip for delicious G-spot stimulation—but as a bonus, you can flip it over and use the tip against the external clitoris, too.
Lovense Lush 3
Wearable vibrators can be tricky because there’s no guarantee they’ll align with the user’s anatomy—or that they’ll stay in place once they’re in. That said, this toy is one of Lovehoney’s best-selling and highest-rated vibrators, so if you’re looking for hands-free G-spot stimulation, consider giving this one a go. Bonus: It’s app-controlled, so reviewers say it’s great for sexy time in long-distance relationships.
Lovehoney Desire Luxury G-Spot Vibrator
It’s basically the eggplant emoji in vibrator form. The dramatic curves of this G-spot vibe make it easy to apply intense pressure exactly where you want it.
Some vibrators can be used externally on the clitoris (and other erogenous zones) and inside the vagina. We love a multitasker!
Pros
- Curved design is made to follow your anatomy for unparalleled pleasure
- Six settings
There should be epic poems written about this vibrator. It has a tapered tip and rounded sides for targeted or diffused external stimulation; a curved shaft for internal G-spot play; and a strong but silent motor. It’s simple, dependable pleasure. 10/10, no notes.
Pros
- Curved tip and rounded spherical top encourage external and internal orgasms
- Easy, no-slip control
It looks like a toy airplane, but it’s way more fun. That round nub feels great on the clitoris, and the curved body means you can use it internally on the G-spot, too. But the best part is the finger holder, which means your hand and wrist can stay in neutral while you play around in Pleasure Town.
Dame Products Arc
The minimalist design is almost as satisfying as the vibrator itself. Designed for internal and external play, the Arc curves to hit the G-spot and has a unique ridge for targeted clitoral stimulation.
Adam and Eve Blue Dolphin
For those who want that realistic penis experience—in shape and texture, if not color—this battery-powered vibrator is great for penetration or holding the tip against the external clitoris.
Lovehoney Silencer Classic Vibrator
This rippled, rounded, battery-powered vibe is ideal for first-time buyers. It’s classic vibrator that won’t break the bank—or wake up your kids or roommates.
Also known as clit-sucking vibrators—or simply clit-suckers—these vibrators suck, blow, and vibrate for a whole new kind of stimulation. Some people say the sensation mimics oral sex.
Womanizer Duo Stimulator & Vibrator
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Womanizer blessed us by taking its classic clit-sucking technology and adding a vibrating G-spot arm for maximum blended pleasure.
lelo SONA 2 Cruise
“It’s super high-quality, the design is stunning, and it’s got built-in ‘cruise control,’ a.k.a the intensity automatically increases when it’s pressed hard against the body,” Courtney Kocak, co-host of the Private Parts Unknown podcast, told Men’s Health.
Dame Products Aer
Womanizer Liberty Clitoral Sucking Vibrator Clit Massaging Toy for Women, Red Wine
“It’s petite and easy to travel with,” Ashley Cobb, a sex expert for Lovehoney, told Men’s Health. “It also has a magnetic travel cover for discretion. You can literally drop it in your pocket, and no one would know it was there.”
Satisfyer Love Triangle
This little clit-sucker from Satisfyer—one of the biggest names in the suction game—is perfect for travel. “[It’s] a delight, as it combines the air-suction technology with deep vibrations,” Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven, told Men’s Health.
Adorime Mermaid Rose Sucking Vibrator
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With their teeny-tiny tips, pinpoint vibrators “are really great for getting intense stimulation exactly where you want it,” Wright says. “Pinpointed toys are often geared towards clitoral stimulation, but because of the design, they can be great on the nipples, collar bone, belly, and other erogenous zones.”
Zalo Bess
The little ball is the standout of the three attachments on this versatile vibe. It’s about the size of a blueberry, so the stimulation is targeted without being too intense—a great beginner pinpoint vibrator, and with alternate attachments if the ball isn’t your thing. Also, not for nothing, people will compliment the toy’s luxurious design.
Zumio Ethel
You want precision? Ethel will give you precision. The tiny, hard tip rotates instead of vibrates, and the experience is intense—in a very, very good way. This is the toy for people who want to go all-in on pinpointed pleasure.
Crave Vesper
What it slightly lacks in power, the Vesper more than makes up for in coolness and convenience. This slim metal vibrator doubles as a necklace, making it the ideal sex party accessory, incognito travel-friendly toy, or sexy gift for a partner.
Eroscillator 2 Plus
It’s the only vibrator endorsed by the legendary Dr. Ruth Westheimer, so it has to be good. “It was created by a Swiss scientist [Philippe Wood] who’s not alive anymore; he’s the same guy who [invented the] electric toothbrush,” Westheimer told Men’s Health. “I right away thought, hallelujah! Whoever can come up with the electric toothbrush can come up with an electric vibrator!”
The future is now! These vibrators can heat up and cool down for whatever kind of temperature play you’re into.
Deia The Hot & Cold
This toy lets you switch between hot and cold modes to enhance stimulation and pleasure.
Zalo Rose Rabbit Vibrator
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More is more when it comes to this vibrator. It has a vibrating shaft to hit the G-spot and a clit sucker, and it heats up to a delicious temperature that helps you relax down there.
Lora DiCarlo Drift
Lora DiCarlo’s genius warming vibrators heat up to 104 degrees—just above body temperature—to mimic the touch of a partner (if that’s something you’re into) or simply to help you relax. This popular vibe works for external and internal stimulation.
Lora DiCarlo Sway
There’s something for everyone with this heated vibe, which has dual ends for G-spot and prostate stimulation.
“Many rabbit vibrators stimulate the clitoris while stimulating the internal portions of the vulva and vagina, including the internal part of the clitoris that we can’t see,” Wright says. (FYI, the clitoris is shaped like a wishbone; that little nub at the top of the vulva is just the tip.) “By stimulating the internal parts and the external parts of the vulva, vagina, and clitoris, you may have what’s considered a blended orgasm.”
Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
The curve at the end of the shaft really hits the spot, and the rabbit attachment is big and firm enough that it stimulates the clitoris at most angles you could possibly hold the toy. Hello, blended orgasm.
We-Vibe Nova 2
With most rabbit vibrators, you have to hope and pray the two arms align to hit the G-spot and external clit simultaneously. Not with the Nova 2; the highlight of this toy is the bendable internal arm, which users can customize to whatever angle feels most out-of-this-world.
Lelo SORAYA WAVE™
You know that “come hither” motion you’ve heard about for stimulating the G-spot? This toy can do it for you. It doesn’t just vibrate; the internal arm can also “wave” back and forth, putting feel-good pressure on the front wall of the vagina.
Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit Vibrator
With over 1,400 five-star reviews on Lovehoney and a relatively low price, this 10-function toy is the perfect option for rabbit vibe beginners.
What to Consider Before You Buy
With so many options, it can be hard to choose! Before you buy a vibrator, you should have an idea of what kind of stimulation you enjoy—internal, external, or both! If you’re new to the magical world of vibrators, you can’t go wrong with a bullet vibrator. They’re often inexpensive and less intimidating than other models. If you’re like external stimulation, you might enjoy a wand or a suction vibrator. If internal stimulation is your jam, look for a curved vibrating dildo that promises G-spot orgasms. For those who just can’t choose, a rabbit is a great all-around pleaser.
What Are The Types Of Vibrators for Women?
Women are lucky in that they can have two different types of orgasms: external and internal. Most vibrators are specialized to achieve one or the other, and the kind of orgasm you enjoy depends on the person and their specific anatomy. Generally speaking, there are four types of vibrators: wand vibrators, bullet vibrators, suction devices, and rabbit vibrators. There are many other vibrators that women can get pleasure from, such as vibrating cock rings or anal toys.
How We Selected
To find the best sex toys for men worth buying now, we consulted with sex and relationship therapist Rachel Wright, LMFT. We made our selections based on value, feel, appearance, and just how well they worked. We also considered vibrators that had high customer ratings on e-commerce websites we trust.
Jordyn Taylor is the Executive Digital Editor at Men’s Health. She is the co-author of ‘Best. Sex. Ever.: 200 Frank, Funny & Friendly Answers About Getting It On,’ and an adjunct professor at New York University’s Arthur L. Carter Journalism Institute. She’s covered sex, relationships, health, wellness, and LGBTQ+ issues since 2013, and has previously worked as a reporter and editor at Mic and the New York Observer.
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